Off to Australia for almost a month; I was out of my comfort zone clothes, couch, town and routines. As I hugged my son goodbye at the drop-off curb, I felt a switch turn on inside; the switch that triggers anticipation, observation, excitement and awe.
People watching comes naturally; I notice how they're dressed, how much luggage they have, how young parents handle their little ones PLUS strollers, car seats and diaper bags. I wondered why men in suits carrying briefcases appear to be important; if women about my age were going to visit their grandchildren or heading across the globe like me?
Central Coast Ferry on our way to Woy Woy. |
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Their headmistress gave me permission to snap a photo as they boarded. |
An unexpected fall as that bus came to a stop kept me in the moment too! I stood up as we neared my corner, clutching my packages and holding onto the pole. But then I instinctively reached for a little girl's arm and down I went! Thanks to my training on 'how to fall,' I landed on my bottom, holding my bags and arms to my chest and then quickly standing up. I was fine....and grateful those kids didn't tell as they scrambled off and into mom and dad's arms!
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Inscribed stones line the footpaths of Old Sydney Sydney is one of the most beautiful cities in the world. I made a point to visit the places my husband and I enjoyed on our visit 14 years earlier. I also made a point to visit new and different things not mentioned in the brochures. Balmoral Beach is small, remote and covered in sparkling white sand. It's out of the way and not at all a big draw like Manly or Bondi Beaches. I loved the solitude; loved that I was there alone. I made time to read more history about Old Sydney...the original spot created for and built by convicts shipped over from England. It's all sandstone....this ancient part of the city. |


The Opera House has several theaters and venues inside. It's iconic full sail image is recognizable the world over. I took photos years ago; took the tour and learned about it's history. This time I walked around to the front....the view cruise ships see as they round the curve into Sydney Harbor. I climbed the layers of stairs, checked out the underground level and strolled through the 200 year old Botanical Gardens next door.
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Didgeridoo wind instruments |
I was so tuned in, so aware of street activity and music. The sound of boat horns, train tracks rumbling, babies crying, performers singing or playing instruments and the various languages being spoken around me. The smoothly run Overseas Passenger Terminal was captivating with it's constant buzz of worker bees.
What a cool way to end my stay in Australia. The plan was simple; let's meet early at the pier.
It was the best of times, letting the day unfold spontaneously.
Going home brings a sense of anticipation too. I had a flight and procedures to follow which put me back in travel routine. I looked forward to seeing my younger brother waiting at the other end of my journey. It felt good knowing I'd soon be back in school pickup line, my granddaughters' asking "please, Grandma, can we go to Dairy Queen!" I've been home several weeks now; back to day-to-day chores, work and favorite TV shows.
The best part about getting away on an adventure is still with me though....
The Savoring
I'm writing stories for my blog, creating another Gramcracker picture book,
still talking about it.
The Reflection
I feel a sense of peace from spending days and nights with my family
on the other side of the world.
I feel accomplished by journeying solo, figuring things out for myself and discovering that I'm much more capable than I thought!
The Dimmer Switch
That switch that turned on the moment I stepped out of my son's car has not really turned off. It's dimmed for now; awaiting time and opportunity for next time!
So glad you "screwed your courage to the sticking point," took on this adventure, had a wonderful time, and arrived safely back home. Yaay for Joan! Or should that be "Good on ya."
ReplyDeleteI sure did, Bob! I actually talked to myself saying "you can do this, Joan!" and afterward thinking, "how brave of me!" Powerful thoughts are hope and courage! Thanks for reading and recognizing this!
DeleteI am in awe of you traveling alone. It's great, wonderful, inspiring and I am so thrilled for you and the lovely trip you took, Joan. What a wonderful, magical journey you made. And the video worked!! YES. How cool you are.
ReplyDeleteOh thank goodness! Thanks for letting me know the video works! Cathy, there were times when I was reluctant or nervous, but seeing folks with limitations or disabilities doing what I was doing pushed me to soldier on! You can so do whatever you want, girl...my favorite advocate! My husband used a walker; I'm always sensitive to accessibility and acceptance. Thanks for reading and commenting my friend :)
DeleteSuch lovely reflections. I like that you mentioned the 'dimmer switch'-I get that feeling when I start off on a new adventure, especially on my own, everything feels a little muted and out of focus then slowly brightens and becomes sharper. So happy you shared these memories.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Laura...what a perfect way to describe it...slowly brightens and becomes sharper!
DeleteIt was a definite 'turn on' when I left, but it never turned off...just there waiting patiently. Thanks for reading me!
Oh thanks for sharing these memories and your emotions with us!
ReplyDeleteFunny how we don't always know how we feel till we read what we wrote! Thanks for stopping by and recognizing that, Paula!
DeleteWonderful post.
ReplyDeleteI was interested to see your "training in how to fall." My mother gave me such lessons when I was a kid--a pretty darn clumsy and she didn't want me to break an arm since we wouldn't have been able to afford the doctor's bill.
Hi Joan! Good for you for taking this trip and seeing new parts of the world. I agree that traveling puts us in a new frame of mind and teaches us about ourselves as well as the world around us. And good job on your first video. I'm getting ready to add some of that to my blog too. AND so nice to meet you in person at #BAMC16! Wish we could have spent more time together but maybe next year???? ~Kathy
ReplyDeleteJoan, this is just wonderful. It's quite an accomplishment to branch out and do things independently. I admire you for traveling alone. High-Five to you!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your recent trip down under! It brings back fond memories of the trip my husband and I took just over 17 years ago; I was nearly 8 months pregnant on the plane ride back and recall telling him that I was never going to fly again. :-)
ReplyDeleteI must go. That's all there is to it.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful adventure! I don't know if I would have your courage!
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