Before I was a Grandma....I was a Mom!

 Having both our kids spend an evening with us for my husband's birthday dinner turned out to be the  greatest of gifts for both of us! Our daughter is nearby......but our son lives near LA and he flew home to surprise his dad! The doorbell rang at 8 AM and the stunned, emotional hug between father and son was priceless! We were all so tickled to have pulled it off....not easy to put one over on the big guy! 

After spending the day doing house and yard chores and catching a quick nap....we met our daughter at one of the best restaurants in town to celebrate!    And there we were.......quickly and easily stepping back in time!    It's been years since we had the two of them together......without kids or spouses around.....and for any length of time. What a rare treat!

We spent hours reminiscing about their childhood, all the places we've lived, sharing funny stories and happy times! No sports talk, no grandkid talk, no world problems or work worries......just all about the four of us and their growing up years!

 We had several cross country moves when they were young. The place they consider their hometown is Ipswich, MA where we moved in the 80's.....one starting 4th grade, the other Kindergarten.  They took turns recalling favorite restaurants, ice skating on the frozen Ipswich river every winter, the Town Common where they participated in seasonal parades, races and other celebrations. Taking the train into Salem to meet their Dad....then editor of the paper there. We all took trips into Boston regularly to enjoy concerts or games at Boston Garden or Fenway Park........ride the Duck Boats in the Public Garden and sometimes just to browse the shops and eateries in Faneuil Hall. 

The kids were at the same school where I taught.......one of my favorite memories! Ipswich is where they started playing hockey... a lifetime sport they both pursue today!  And they recalled that period of time when all of us were involved in the church......dad a lector, son an alter boy, sis singing in the choir and me teaching Sunday School! Funny how that stuck with them, huh?

It was the best of times.......and the evening ended with talk of a visit back to Boston in the near future! I suggested all the families gather for a summer trip......but they want to do it with just Mom and Dad! As my son pointed out...we're the ones who were there, who remember their early days....who made it memorable!  Not sure if and how they'll manage it.....but we're ready to go whenever the time comes!
 Right now, this Mom is not only savoring that evening......but also smiling inside at how much they enjoyed their wonderful childhood and embrace all that we were!

Turns out, that surprise celebration was very meant to be; six months later my husband did not wake up from a nap. We are forever grateful for this night of reminiscing. The kids telling their Dad that their lives had been enriched with all the places we'd lived, the adventures he took us on during their childhood was the greatest gift ever. I'll always cherish this moment in time  as a mom.