The kids and I are doing okay.
This past year has been a really big deal...I sold our house! I did it, honey...I got what you'd always hoped for; and walked away with 18 years worth of memories in my heart as well! The new family loved the deck and garden wall you built, and wanted the den shelves, your big desk and the outdoor furniture!
Guess what else? Treg and Cara left Ventura! Quit their jobs, put the girls and pets in the Volvo and road tripped across the country last summer seeing all kinds of amazing places. We're all back home in Michigan now , babe....back where our story began. They found jobs they love; jobs with benefits, great pay...and yes...another company car! They have a darling house in Vicksburg and I found a cozy condo in Portage that's perfect for me. I sub at the nearby school; you know I love learning and being challenged with new things!
The Littles are growing up, Grandpa. 11 and 8 now...all doing really well in school. JC Elementary was named a National School of Excellence last year.....I've worked there and can vouch for the amazing staff and enriching environment in that building!
They are happy to have their other grandparents nearby to help out and to spoil them like you and I did for so many years! Drew is maturing...he'll begin middle school this fall! His athletic ability just keeps maturing too....and not far behind is Laney! Lane is a hustler and anticipates every move just like Drew. You would love watching the boys together now....brothers teaching and leaning on each other. It's more Paige and the boys now, rather than Drew and the twins. Little Miss Chevious is still a sweetheart, but feisty and bossy like our growing up Pumpkin days!
It was the first time we've all been together since summer 2011 at the lake house...that grand strand of lawn and beach front where all five played chase on the grass and splashed all day in another Crooked Lake, improving their swimming, driving the boat, learning to fish! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for planning that vacation, sweetheart.The impact it had on our lives was tremendous.
McKenzie is excelling in her senior year and Kayleigh is a freshman....already securing first chair in the chamber orchestra with her viola! She has a gift for music....and loves to write like you did. Best of all is her sweet, caring soul...our mini-Sonshine boy; half sensitive, half sass!
McKenz applied to Western which pleases me so much...you too, I know! But she's leaning toward a year or so at KVCC first to become a paramedic! Remember how we'd burst with pride but wring our hands every time her dad answered a call to help people in distress? Now our girl is following in his footsteps! And guess what?....she LOVES old cars! She is still very much Grandpa's girl! Three years of German and speaking fluently! And she wants to pursue art and design like you encouraged her to do.
The kids are doing fine. Happy and healthy and making memories of their own. Tracy and John took their kids to Disneyworld last spring! Treg and Cara and the girls are embracing winter; ice skating, snowmen, boots and parkas! Makes you smile knowing how smoothly they've moved from barefoot on their backyard beach to cornfields and wooded acres behind their house now!
I am doing okay....still working on the eating/cooking thing. I eat healthy.....farm to table mostly. Little work but good results.....but lazy anyway you look at it, I know. But get this...I'm going to attempt your Famous Spaghetti this weekend for Treg and Cara and the girls!
I have my bike here...riding's not the same without you and Palm trees....but I ride anyway because it feels good and connects me with your voice and smile in the wind...better than those pennies I found everywhere that first year, honey.
One last thing, Jimbo. I've seen many Gazette folks since you left and I love hearing the old stories; hearing them miss you like I do. My condo is just down the road from George! He's been a great help; recommending a realtor to us, as well as dentists and doctors in the area. He's invited Treg....who still calls him Coach...to play poker with the guys, and he'll be by someday to fix the old sailboat riggings. This year is KVCC's 50th Anniversary, and Tom is in charge of pulling it all together as he does so well. I messed up by not keeping the bound edition....so sorry. You kept everything from way back to the way back....and I always wanted to get rid of things. Well, I did. The move made me do it. Even Tom said, "Jesus, Joan" if it makes you feel any better!
We've been welcomed back in the family folds too.....first in Detroit with the Carswell/Bickley clan; then with all the Michigan Stommens coming together at Jake's house in Mattawan! Mike and Phil and Jeff....oh man, I lost it. Those three little boys at our wedding all grown up reminded me of how you looked and talked and loved life....I cried.
Miss you so much, miss you at night. Miss having coffee with you when daylight comes. Miss you growing along with me, miss you loving me.
Thank you for growing me up. I never acted like it, but it shows now I think. Thank you for equipping me to carry on; for building the foundation that made us us. And now, my darling...thank you for watching over and keeping the kids safe and healthy.
Paige says you are "a writer in the sky"....oh how God appreciates having you and your way with words!
Love you forever