The kids and I are doing okay.
It was a really big deal that first year...but I sold our house! I did it, honey...I got what you'd always hoped for; and walked away with 18 years worth of memories in my heart as well! I couldn't stay there anymore without you, babe. The new family loved the deck and garden wall you built, and wanted the den shelves, your big desk and the outdoor furniture!
Guess what else? Treg and Cara left Ventura! Quit their jobs, put the girls and pets in the Volvo and road-tripped across the country seeing all kinds of amazing places. We're all back home in Michigan now...back where our story began. They found jobs they love; jobs with benefits, great pay...and yes...another company car! They have a darling house in Vicksburg and I found a cozy condo in Portage that's perfect for me. I sub at the nearby school; you know I love being with kids and the challenge of new things.
The Littles are growing up, Grandpa. They’re fourteen and eleven now...all doing really well in school.They are happy to have their other grandparents nearby to help out and to spoil them like you and I did for so many years! Drew is growing up...he'll begin high school this fall! His athletic ability just keeps maturing too. Lane is a hustler and anticipates every move just like Drew. He’s quite good at tennis, I think this may be his sport! You would love watching the boys together now...brothers teaching and leaning on each other. It's more Paige and the boys now, rather than Drew and the twins. Paige is still a sweetheart and quite capable of running the household! The twins are finishing fifth grade...middle school, here they come!
Tracy and John gave me their blessing when I decided to make the move. They’ve taken weeks off to spend Thanksgivings and summers here with me so I could have the family all together.
Remember the summer of 2011 at the lake house...that grand strand of lawn and beach front where all five kids played chase on the grass and splashed all day in another Crooked Lake, improving their swimming, driving the boat, learning to fish! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for planning that vacation, sweetheart.The impact it had on our lives was tremendous.
McKenzie excelled in German all the way through high school and speaks it fluently, a nod to your ancestry, sweetheart. She’s an art student now at Valley and is quite talented with various styles of sketching and painting. Even more impressive, honey...she inherited your writing gene and has published two science fiction novels! I’m blessed this delightful young woman wants to live with me part of the time...remember how close we always were? Kayleigh is a bright, beautiful high school senior with several offers to Michigan colleges, including Kalamazoo College. Her plan is to pursue the math and science fields. Best of all is her sweet, caring soul...she's Treg’s mini-me; half sensitive, half sass!
The kids are doing fine. Happy and healthy and making memories of their own. Tracy and John have taken their kids to Disneyworld twice now! And they finally got a dog...a little Boston Terrier named Hershey. Treg and Cara divorced but are still the best of friends. Makes you smile watching how much time they spend together working on the house and doing things with the girls!
I am doing okay too. Still working on the eating/cooking thing. I eat healthy, farm to table mostly.
My California beach bike is here now and I use the nearby trails, but riding's not the same without you and your three-wheeler. I ride anyway because it feels good...the wind always connects me with your voice and smile, sweetheart. I keep busy with my friends and community events and subbing.
One more thing about moving back, Jimbo. I've seen many of the Gazette folks since you left and I love hearing the old stories; hearing them miss you like I do. My condo is just down the road from George and Amy's place. They are great friends and check on my regularly. KVCC's 50th Anniversary was a couple years ago and Tom was in charge of pulling it all together as he does so well. I messed up by not keeping the bound Gazette edition....so sorry. You kept everything from way back to the way back....and I always wanted to get rid of things. Well, I did. The move made me do it. Even Tom said, "Jesus, Joan" if it makes you feel any better! The Herald celebrated their 100th Anniversary and interviewed me as a former reporter. Marrying the editor turned it into a Valentine Day story!
Our families have welcomed us back too, first in Detroit with the Carswell/Bickley clan; then with all the Michigan Stommens at holiday gatherings. Mike and Phil and Jeff were three little boys at our wedding....now they're all grown up and reminding me of how you looked and talked and loved life....I cried.
Miss you so much, miss you at night. Miss having coffee with you when daylight comes. Miss you growing along with me, miss you loving me. Thank you for growing me up. I never acted like it, but it shows now I think. Thank you for equipping me to carry on; for building the foundation that made us us. And now, my darling...thank you for watching over us and keeping the kids safe and healthy.
Love you forever